i saw one article, it appears that 30th of April is NO SPANKING DAY. (means no hitting on children)
it say's that we shouldn't spank children lo, cos it's violence, and it has a bad influence on their growth, mentally n physically. it says that children actually can reason with them. if we adults are patience and we should show them to behave like adult.
hmm...in some way i agree with that, but i also think that sometime spanking is necessary lo. although spanking is the quick and easy way to teach a kid, but sometime if the kid is really hard-headed that i think some spanking is necessary.
i say this because me myself also got spank by my parents when i'm naughty at young. although i don't understand why the real reason they spank me, but i do know now.
i think they're not trying to teach me that i'm naughty therefore i cannot get the toy,
but they're trying to teach me that, there's nothing in this world that you can get it by just crying, but you need to work hard and earn for it. hmm...i think tat's the lesson behind it, after all those years...
dad spank, mum tell me nicely...i'm lucky to have this balance. if both spank...then not gud for me, if both too nice i may get spoiled. haha so again, it stress the importance of balance. hmm...so i think i would spank my children (haha if i have) , as i still think there's importance in it.
haha, tat's all. this is an old post that i save as a draft and finish it later.